If I'm right about you, you're here because you are in a season of marital hardship and you're looking for help. And not just any kind of help, spiritual help. You're looking for help that is rooted in Christ Jesus. Well, Woman of God, you are in the right place.
I have shared 18 years of marriage and 23 years of love with my husband David. We are blessed to steward 3 amazing boys and a massive estate in the south metro Atlanta area.
The first 7 years of marriage is where God truly prepared me to be one of the absolute best at helping women navigate seasons of marital hardship.
...the Lord put us on a trajectory for abundance that was rooted in 100% faith. As a result of stepping into that journey and trusting him every step of the way I found myself retired from a 13 year marketing career dedicating the next 5 years to building a successful personal natural hair brand, TJLuvsBeingNatural. At the tail end of that 5 years after generating an incredible following, I felt the compelling of the Lord guiding me into cutting off my hair, the very thing that my career was based on. With no idea what was next I was obedient to the call. My husband cut off my hair and within a year God transitioned my natural hair platform into a marriage platform. Then in 2020 the Lord began to send His daughters to me and OneFlesh TV Coaching was officially born.
From my early years of marriage that was filled with arguing, selfish behavior, and a lack of understanding of how to truly love, to grieving through repeat pregnancy loss as well as newborn child loss and, struggling through financial turmoil, my husband and I really went through it. Now, with God, David and I have designed a marriage that is currently living in exceeding abundance in every area.
Created personal brand TJLuvsBeing Natural to share my natural hair journey and creative styles. Grew a great following, became a natural hair influencer and started partnering with hair brands
2012-2014
After 7 years of growing my brand God called me away from influencer marketing without clear direction. I cut all of my hair to commit to wherever he was taking me
God led me to focus on my marriage, as a result I started creating marriage content. Shortly after, OneFlesh TV was born.
2018-2019
Started doing 1-On-1 Intensive Coaching with wives. Created and launched Season I of the Winning Wives Academy in an effort to serve more women and begin developing community for them
2020-2021
Developed and launched W.H.O.L.E., my online learning and support platform and community
The SHIFT Conference was born
2022-2023
...Which we'll get into, but no matter what capacity I serve you in, please know that while I am an advocate of marriage, your marriage is not my job, you are. I am not here to help you save your marriage however, what you learn with me will contribute to the renewing.
Teach you how to operate in accordance with the Word, especially in the authority the Lord Jesus has given you so that you can overcome the enemy in this season of your life and beyond
Guide you into deeper fellowship with Holy Spirit so you can learn to be guided by Him (without me)
Help you unlearn the way of the world by bringing you into the knowledge of truth which is the Word of God
A core resource that I use to help my clients in these key areas is The Curriculum. The Curriculum consists of 7 robust modules of critical information regarding God’s foundational blueprint for love and marriage as well as transformational insight pertaining to spiritual warfare. The Curriculum is only offered in 2 of the 3 ways to work with me.
While these things do not guarantee renewing for your marriage...
Uncover the truth about regaining trust and what you actually need to do it.
Understand the difference between effective communication and fruitful communication. & why fruitful communication is what you need in marriage
Understand the foundational blueprint of God's design for love and marriage
Learn about the various strategies and tactics the enemy uses to destroy marriages, the authority you have to defeat Him and how to actually defeat Him
Gain the insight and information necessary to understand what your marriage is truly up against
Discover what forgiveness truly is, why it's so important, what's holding you back from forgiving, and how to actually carry it out.
Uncover the best ways to address sexual challenges as well as how to incorporate more non sexual intimacy in your marriage
Joining my online learning and support community, W.H.O.L.E. is the first best step to working with me.